Questions to consider in polyamorous relationships

Cascade Spring Cook

heartfulpoly(at)aphroweb.net
707-794-7334
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Some things to pay attention to, to help in making a decision about whether or not to become involved in a particular relationship:

• Does this add to or detract from my other relationships? (In particular my primary relationship, if I have one)
• Am I increasing intimacy or avoiding intimacy?
• What are the likely effects of making love to this new person? Will I/we like the residues?
• Is this encouraging personal growth?
• Am I paying attention to my own needs? To my partners' needs?
• What are my motivations?
• How does this fit into my existing life? Do I have enough time for this?
• Does this feel life affirming?
• What do my inner voices say about this?

Cascade Spring Cook (Elaine Cook) 707-794-7334 cascade(at)aphroweb.net

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